There is a quiet courage when you decide that you are ready to be seen.
Projectors, this is for you
Not for the parts that have been keeping you small, or the repeated pattern of feeling disconnected and chronically exhausted,
or the ceaseless falsehoods, self-doubt, and endless shoulds that have pervaded your life for far too long.
There is a stirring triumph when you say to yourself,
“This is enough, there must be something more than this. I am done with this.”
There must be more to me.
There is a stirring triumph when you heed this call, the nudge, the whisper to opt out of this inauthenticity.
Claiming your power back and honoring the Projector, your soul came here to be.
So one may ask, how do I get over my fear of being seen?
You begin by acknowledging your fears,
sitting with your fragments, and getting curious with your woundings and borrowed conditioning.
You begin by healing yourself courageously and stop hiding behind your pain.
You begin by speaking to yourself differently today.
You begin by prioritizing your energetic mastery; dispensing your energy more intentionally, and getting clear who has access to you.
You begin by surrounding yourself with people who make you feel seen and recognized already, and stop shrinking yourself in places with those who make you feel otherwise.
You begin by taking baby steps.
You begin by learning to take up space all over again.
You begin by choosing to be the co-creator of your reality rather than the victim of your circumstances.
You begin today.
Ask yourself these questions:
Which areas of your life are you dimming your light?
Where are you currently afraid to shine?
Where are you presently leaking your energy?
How can you slow down more intentionally today?
When was the last time you had fun?
When was the last time you celebrated yourself?
Have you been waiting, intentionally, actively and playfully?
Being visible means recognizing ourselves authentically, including the parts that feel imperfect, flawed, inconsistent, fragmented, and vulnerable and yet, still show up wholeheartedly as we are.
Being visible does not mean befriending fear right away.
Being visible means choosing love and managing your perceived fear simultaneously.
May we all feel
seen together.
Hi! I am so glad to cross paths with you here.
My name is Sylvia.
I am the founder, spiritual writer, certified Human Design reader and Projector guide and business mentor behind Arawme and Your Companion.
Unearthing Projectorhood is a safe space dedicated for Projectors like us to feel seen, slow down and live gently in our sacral-dominant world.
Over here, I write musings from my Projectorhood journey, deconditioning, healing, spirituality, soft and slow living, contemplations about grief, love, life, and loss, active waiting, feminine energetics, identity work, Projector soft business, visibility energetics, and even my lived experience from living along my different lines based on Astrocartography. I am a line 1/3 after all (so I have a lot of lived and embodied wisdom to share with you).
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To your Divinity,
Sylvia